fix(npm): allow rename when replacement value is unchanged

[straub]

Changes

This change adds an additional condition so that replacement updates can proceed if the name changes but the version value does not.

Context

Please select one of the following:

• This closes an existing Issue, Closes: #
• This doesn't close an Issue, but I accept the risk that this PR may be closed if maintainers disagree with its opening or implementation

Discussion: #44426

AI assistance disclosure

Did you use AI tools to create any part of this pull request?

Please select one option and, if yes, briefly describe how AI was used (e.g., code, tests, docs) and which tool(s) you used.

• No — I did not use AI for this contribution.
• Yes — minimal assistance (e.g., IDE autocomplete, small code completions, grammar fixes).
• Yes — substantive assistance (AI-generated non‑trivial portions of code, tests, or documentation).
• Yes — other (please describe):

Documentation (please check one with an [x])

• I have updated the documentation, or
• No documentation update is required

How I've tested my work (please select one)

I have verified these changes via:

• Code inspection only, or
• Newly added/modified unit tests, or
• No unit tests, but ran on a real repository, or
• Both unit tests + ran on a real repository

[straub]

My brain's still anchored to peer deps, where I encountered this issue. I can generalize this to dependencies, if you all prefer!